Wednesday, March 27, 2013

to those who said "I'll never leave you"










Back then when we were referred to as the next generation by our parents who were of the greatest generation, I know they wondered what would ever become of this world. A generation of hippies, yuppies, revolutionaries, and long hairs with no respect for authority, we most certainly presented a problem to the establishment, as they referred to themselves. We were free thinking, although sometimes under an artificial illusion, and I had a friend who used to brag “I will try anything once, twice if it feels good.” And many did, and so it is said that if you remember the sixties, you probably weren’t there. But as many of us do remember the sixties, the one drug we started on, and continue to consume today in mass quantities is motorcycles. And to a generation that brought us out of WWII, the Big One, and saw the start of many motorcycle clubs-both AMA and Outlaw, the generation that won freedom, and expressed freedom via two wheels, had strayed from it. As they went from Schwinns to Cushmans to Hondas to Harleys, they finally ditched it all for the four wheel conveyance we call cars. Maybe a Deuce coupe when dating, then something more realistic as a sedan when the kids arrived. Then the station wagon so they could show their individuality and be like everyone else, and then finally on to the quiet, tomblike existence of big luxury car, as the income allowed. And evolution of wheels, a coming of age of sorts. For no responsible adult would be caught in a hot rod, only in their dreams would they do that. But we might find a young person speeding along in Dad’s Mercedes Benz.
Years ago a General Motors executive noted “you can sell an old man a young man’s car, but you can’t sell a young man an old man’s car.” And he was right. As we got older, we went right up the GM ladder of hierarchy, until we arrived in the Cadillac. Boy, how times have changed.
At a recent car show, with many old cars and hot rods, the average age of the car owners was well past retirement. Driving the cars of their youth, or the ones of their youthful dreams, hardly an old Cadillac or Buick was found among them, these were cars of youth, of freedom, and of weekend rides with the top down, your arm around your best girl, and with both eyes looking out for the law, who was always ready to swoop down out of nowhere and ruin your afternoon. You were having fun, as these older couples were, while back home in their garages you may find sitting a shiny new four door sedan. Detailed to the max by someone else. Just the opposite of their hot rods, who they would never trust anyone else to touch. And many with their wives along with them enjoying the gift of youth that old cars promises, and wondering why their own children drive four doors, when there is only two of you, who needs the extra doors? Which makes me think of a Tom Murray quote, “there are two kinds of girls, the ones you date on Saturday night, and the ones you invite home to dinner on Sunday.” Today it is interpreted as “good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere else.”
So referring back to doing something twice if it feels good, many seek solace in the past via their cars. The time when you first dated your wife, and first tried to kiss her. When you knew she was the one, and finally got up the courage to ask her. Maybe in the front seat of that same hot rod, that you were forced to sell when you had kids and a job, and had to be more responsible. But you always look back to the good times with fondness, knowing someday you would have one again. To some the fountain of youth, to others a supply of endless memories, yet to others dreams finally realized while still old enough to sit up and take their meals. But that something wonderful about old cars, that bring out the best memories, and make even the tough times seem worth remembering. And if anyone should ask “where have the good old days gone?” they smile and remind you right now. These are the good old days. They never left, we did.
In motorcycling a resurgence is going on, as many who used to ride, then got married and responsible, are coming back to riding. Remembering their last bike, and finding out the one they remembered was in better shape, and was far less expensive than the one on Craigslist. Some will go into the dealer, where a kid who isn’t old enough to remember those good old days, won’t know what an Interceptor was, or anything with CB attached to it. And when he steers them to the current generation’s model, the price points them out the door. Some have bought houses for less! But to those that will listen, and whose dream is still alive, the world of motorcycles today is in a Golden Era. Honda makes entry level bikes, which outperform those from our youth, for half of what the newest and fastest go for. And as 500cc used to be big, now it is small, but performs better than your old 750. The bait is set, and we are hooked! And riding again, and the smile that we thought was gone and forgotten, now is hidden behind the newest full face. And a whole new group of new bikers is emerging, and proof that there is a fountain of youth-it has two wheels! And unlike the date of Saturday nights long ago, this one you can take home for Sunday dinner, and for a ride after.
Many Christians are like that. Life has interfered with plans, and church along with God was cut out of the equation. The one God they swore to never leave, they have left, and have looked for a way back. But some remember the religion end of their past, and shy away from church. Some when asked, will offer the excuse they don’t need the fellowship, but won’t miss the next car club or bike rally because of it. Fortunately God has an open door program, and welcomes you back. Waiting to meet you where you are, and carry on from there. Introduce you to new worship music, new fellowship, and getting back to the Bible, the same one you would tell everyone that you would never leave. And find all the things that you were missing all these years in that old friend of yours, Jesus Christ. And when you finally decide to welcome Him back, you find you are not alone. A whole generation that was so busy doing their own thing, now wants to do God’s thing, the one thing missing from their lives. The right thing. And soon Sunday morning rides are first to church, then out to lunch with others who ride and love Jesus, and they think-these are the good old days. And it will amaze and amuse some who they find in church. Those Saturday night dates have come to Jesus. And so have the ones from Sunday dinners at home. But the best ones are the best friend you married years ago, who has been along for the ride the whole time...the ones who have never left.
Wherever your testimony takes you, never forget the one who never left you. And is waiting to welcome you back. Finding the God of young man gets better with age, and as the relationship grows, find yourself young again. Life is exciting, and Jesus is real. More real than ever before. And when welcomed back into the family of God, will be heard to say “it’s like I never left.” Never leave again today, these are the good old days, with only better ones to come. With Jesus, of course. That old time religion, it was good enough for me. Still is.
love with compassion,
Mike
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