Tuesday, October 7, 2014

to be or knot to be











It is not a lie to say I was a Boy Scout.  But I was barely a Boy Scout, as I somehow made it to Tenderfoot.  I say somehow, as I could do many of the things required, but never took the time to be tested.  I was too busy out having fun.  Think about it, a group of teenage boys, with limited parental supervision, given knives and axes, and and left in the woods for a weekend.  Eating junk food, playing with fire, and listening to stories around that campfire at night, all being supervised by men in shorts acting like the teens they were there to supervise.  And not a cell phone, i-pod, or laptop in sight.  It was a parent free weekend, filled with so much fun that who had time to do anything like earning merit badges.  Plus although you got to wear that cool sash with all the badges, they expected you to act responsibly too, which meant less fun, more badges and dealing with kids like me.  So maybe I was to become the oldest Tenderfoot, while many younger were earning their badges on the way to Life Scout, with few attaining Eagle.  Those guys really got respect....But one Jamboree I was called into action because of my age, finding rank doesn’t always have its privledges.
I was more of a Jack of All Trades, really a screw up of all things, with an attention span of 2 minutes.  So when it came time to be part of a booth showing off your talents, I was like the last kid chosen in kickball, no one wanted me.  So the Scoutmaster assigned me to help some younger scouts, by age but not by rank.  These guys were knot tying fools, they could tie anything into knots, and could do various knots.  Me, I wore loafers.  But although their fingers were knot crazy, they were scared in front of a crowd, and some would even cry if called upon to speak.  So I was the mouthpiece, describing all the knots, and making it all sound interesting.  And they did a great job, I must have been OK< because we won the Best Booth, and a special badge to wear on our sashes, for those fortunate enough to have earned one.  But being the spokesman, and the oldest, and the biggest, I got the award, and the recognition-all without even having to tie my shoes.  We had won as a team, but one kid, who was a knot tying phenom, got upset with me, and wanted to rat me out.  He had taught all the other kids knots, I just was the front man.  And I wore him like a shadow the rest of the Jamboree, we were now recognized for what the knot tyers had done, and he was buy telling everybody he had done everything, that I was hogging the glory.  Of which I didn’t want, I wanted to be out setting fires with jiffy juice like my other denmates, not being held responsible.  There was no fun in that, and with this kid telling everyone what a yuk I was, it made it worse.  The kid had me tied in knots, and somewhere in it all was a life lesson, all that responsibility just had to have a lesson tied to it.
Now Mr. Deyerle knew who did all the work, it was no secret.  But he was trying to teach us teamwork, and the team got the credit, not the individual.  It took me to entertain as the others tied knots, or it would have put the audience to sleep.  It took both our talents, and he knew it, and while I wanted to be out of the lime light, this other kid wanted to be in it.  So when we were asked for an encore that night, Mr. Deyerle let the kid MC the event.  And the kid panicked, and couldn’t tie anything, he was tongue tied.  So Mr. D nodded at me, I stepped in, and helped out.  A lesson learned that day on teamwork, and who gets the credit.  The rain falls on the just and the unjust, some tie knots and get tongue tied, some can’t and don’t.  To be or knot to be, go figure.
A lesson I still remember, and was reinforced years ago when working for Roger Penske.  He defined teamwork as “if it needs to be done, do it.”  The team wins, and the driver cannot do it without the pit crew, the mechanics, the crew chief, and the sponsor’s backing.  It takes a team...we may be in competition, but not with each other.   We are compliment rather than compete with each other, something Paul wrote about in Corinthians 2000 years ago.  Many were following different teachers, Paul and Apollos among them.  Some taught, some evangelized, but it was God who provided the growth.  Without him, it didn’t matter, with him it made all the difference.  We find many different talents in the church today, and God has made no two of us alike.  Some are really thankful for that.  But we need the talents of each other, in God’s power and direction to succeed.  Only God opens the heart, gives the increase, and satisfies the soul.  Only Jesus is the way, and not dressing alike, singing the same songs, reading only the same scriptures, or trying to earn the same heavenly badge will work.  It is not what we can do, it is what Jesus did and still does that changes everything and changes us.  Only God can give the increase, so get over it.  So we should focus on him rather than on the efforts and methods we have, even those were given to us by him.  So we find strength in Christ, who tells us we can do all things in him.  When we cooperate with the spirit rather than compete, we all win, and Jesus is glorified, he gets the credit.  But yet too many times we seek the gifts rather than the gift giver, and end up not being part of his glory.  And the strongest of churches you find made up of diverse people, serving God, the ultimate title given to us on earth.  There is only one savior-Jesus, and he came to serve, making himself a little lower than the angels for awhile.  Imagine what we can do if we serve rather than seek attention of our talents?  And no amount of badges will gain your merit with God, you cannot make him love you more than he does, but you can change to love him more than you do, by loving his people more.  By just doing what he shows you to do, and nothing more.
I still cannot tie knots well today, it is like it takes a third hand for me.  So I turn to Jesus to be that hand.  To tie and untie that which I cannot, and to give him all the credit.  Our booth may have been about tying knots, but Mr. D saw a more important lesson to be learned.  Jesus is like that, he sees a more important lesson to be learned, and when he gets the credit, we get the badges.  We get to know him better, to seek him first, and to cooperate in the spirit rather than compete against it.  And all the time God provides the growth. 
Jesus Christ, who was, who is, and who is to come.  Some tie, some explain, but Jesus still provides the growth.  Knot you, or me.  Paul may have watered after Apollos planted, just like God planned, and he still provides that growth today.  It is he who makes us the new work, who makes us each unique, and only he who can save us.  The same but different.  Go plant or water today.  Ask knot what your God can do for you, ask what you can do for your God. 
Forever a Tenderfoot, love with compassion,
Mike
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