Thursday, May 30, 2013

older but not old, the mystery of the ages



Somewhere between here and there it is easy to get confused. When I had my birthday earlier this month, I told people despite my age, I didn’t feel old, but felt older. Now to a generation lost on the meaning of words, those who live in txt.land, this may have meant nothing, but to those of us to whom words mean something, it meant something. How’s that for simple logic. I was older, just not old. And I began to realize how trapped in numbers we get everyday. Not more trapped, just trapped. ESPN was bragging about how this 21 year old had hit for the cycle, the youngest ever. I remember turning 21 and being faced with adult responsibilities, yet looking back 21 seems so young, I was only 21 when I left home alone on my motorcycle and headed west. But 21 is young for a ball player, for later I watched a show about Reggie White, who died after years in the NFL at the young age of 33, old by NFL standards. As I look in the garage at my 1978 GS1000, at 35 years old it is old by motorcycle standards, but not to me, I remember them as new. We just sold Uncle Buck, our 1990 Crown Victoria, and he was older than the ball player who hit for the cycle. Yet caught in a time warp, just an old used car, but not old enough to be collectible. But some old car shows are now allowing old cars from the 80’s in the show, and I get confused, what is old? What is young, and what is old? Did I become used along the way, and when do I get my collector status? Maybe it is like my mother, who once threw out some wine given to them as a gift because it got older. My parents were never drinkers, so maybe it is the eye o the beholder. Man oh man on Manishevitz!
When I was growing up I always wanted to be 12, until I had to pay more at the movies. All of a sudden my 50 cents was no good to get me in, and the $1.25 admission fee was 25 cents more than my budget, which used to include popcorn and a drink. What was I thinking? Remember the urban legend about insurance going down when you turned 26 years old? Missed out on that one, too. So it seems I fall into the Goldilocks Syndrome, I ‘m either too hard, too soft, too hot, too cold, too young or too old. What I find I am more than anything else is normal. And I can’t remember making that a goal as a younger, not a young man. Maybe an old Alfred P. Sloan quote, the architect of the original GM make sense, “you can’t sell a young man an old man’s car, but you can sell a old man a young man’s car.” Which I used to believe, but look around today, kids driving 4 door sedans, moms in SUV’s, which are really station wagons, the last thing we would ever tell our dad to buy, and suddenly they look old. With parents starting kids early in kindergarten, and learning to read so they can attend, youth is no longer wasted on the young. Maybe it is like Landon assures me, “I’m 4 1/2!” Not 4, but 4 1/2. That 1/2 makes the difference. He glad he’s getting older, just not old, yet. So maybe we all live in this time/space continuum never fully realizing who, what , where, how, or why we are. Age defines us, or really numbers do. So who are you really?
I also find that most problems change when taking the money factor out of them. We need money for food when hungry, no-you need food. Money is just the form of payment. We give out free food, it is called a gift. We meet needs as needed, the true definition of teamwork-if it needs to be done, do it. Yet so many are in my pockets, or trying to get in them, and the prices only get higher, just like my insurance premiums, they never come down. But true ministry is not like that, which often stuns those not in it. Deluged by phone calls, letters, and sadly cries from some pulpits, some give because they want to, some under guilt, and some because they were taught that way. But true ministry meets the needs of others, and is dependent on Jesus Christ. Sending out His disciples, he told them take no money, or food, He’ll provide. And if someone refuses you, they are really refusing Him, shake the dust from your feet, and take your blessings and go on. In either case, money never changed hands. But Jesus spells it out in Matthew 25, talking to a group of church types, who wondered where they had seen Him, really they wondered where He had been. We did signs and wonders, we prophesied, and in today’s vernacular we did book tours, special offerings, sold trinkets, and t-shirts. All the same things that Jesus once cleared the tabernacle from-money grubbers using God to further their business. Which is why I avoid any business that shows a Christian symbol in its ads. True ministry is just the opposite, go out into the world and share with the lost! Meet needs. But the answers Jesus gave were simple in regards to ministry-if thirsty, give a drink. if hungry, share some food. Naked, clothe them. If in jail or the hospital, even housebound, go and visit. But my favorite, includes both evangelism, discipleship, and the love of God all in one. It personifies Jesus Christ-when you see a stranger, welcome them, take them in. We were all strangers once, some stranger than others, and He took us in. And at what price-don’t even ask! You couldn’t afford it. No FICA score or line of credit needed.
And in three years, starting at age 30, the year a priest went out to work, He did more in that time than all others can do today by themselves, but we can do more with Him-another free promise. So no matter how old, how broke, how rich, how pretty, or how cool you think you are, Jesus still wants you, and has a ministry designed for you. And one you will enjoy and be good at. No fees necessary. Where He guides He provides. I wish I had had that promise on some of the decisions I made on my own! Looking at my bank account, it has all the zeroes, just nothing in front of them, why do others ask me for money, when many of us just don’t have it? Doesn’t scripture tell us we can do ALL things according to His riches and glory? Not our own! So maybe somewhere between here and there we do get confused. That isn’t Jesus, and that isn’t ministry.
“Silver and gold have I not,” Peter said as he healed the cripple in Jesus name. Revelation even tells us that the heavenly highways are paved in gold. Investing in asphalt? Maybe invest in Jesus instead. Send it ahead, as the saying goes. Don’t get caught up in the numbers of life, instead let life work for you. Every age has its good points, and bad points. But blessings are in every day with Jesus, maybe you just aren’t looking. Or asking. Or better yet, listening to His answer. When He says no, it is because it is out of His will, and He has a better yes coming.
And as far as numbers go, a friend bought a new car, “0-60 in 6 seconds,” he bragged. Pointing at the Street Triple, I said “3 seconds.” Fast, and faster. He was younger, I am older. You decide. Jesus said He will drink no wine before it is His time, and He calls us home. Good enough for me, some of us need to grow in Him a little more, and with so few workers, the harvest grows everyday. “Ya pays yer money and ya takes yer chances,” not with Jesus. He wants you, and needs you. Somewhere between here and there you are part of His perfect plan. Don’t miss out, check Him out today. Don’t be like that 12 year old who only the day before had money for popcorn and a soda, and now can’t afford to get in. The price of admission is always the same-one soul, yours. The best deal you will ever make at any age. Even Goldilocks found rest in the perfect bed, find yours in Jesus. I may get older, but I refuse to grow up.
love with compassion,
MIke
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