Monday, May 6, 2013

riding alone, but never lonely, volume 1, part 3




As the truck stops ran further south and east, I thought Texas would never end. Ride from Jersey to Florida, and that same distance still has you riding across Texas. We were spending the night with friends of my new found friend John in Baytown, just outside of Houston. This couple had been in Israel living on a kibbutz, and their stories were interesting. But interest turned sour when the party continued after they went to bed, and the sisters next door invited us over. And my emotions went further south when one pulled a gun on me, and stuck it on my nose! She thought it was funny, I left-quickly. The uncomfortable sofa next door felt safe that night. This yellow rose of Texas was not the girl for me.
The next afternoon found us in New Orleans, with the French Quarter calling us. It was even hotter there, the humidity higher, and after the aridness of the desert southwest, this was misery. Add in the van with no AC, and think of a sauna bath on wheels, we no break for 300 miles. Even the giant bugs seemed tired. But we did the French Quarter, enjoyed Preservation Hall, even though we were shoulder to shoulder in the heat, but were overall disappointed with the French Quarter. Some of the bars, topless and bottomless, made Vegas seem tame, and one Hurricane was enough to tell us it was time to go. Bourbon Street turned into a big disappointment for us. No argument or beignets, we were off to Mississippi, and one state closer to home. We had seen life, although it was low, and now things that at one time I would have engaged in, now I found offensive. Was God changing my heart without telling me? Jackson, Mississippi found us on I-20, and after dark. In these pre-interstate completion days, there wasn’t a fast food restaurant on every corner, particularly in the south after hours. So seeing a Burger King open, we headed for the drive thru-the dining room was closed. The black girl was super friendly, said they were closed, but since we were so hungry, as we had pleaded, she told us to wait, and then came back handing us two big bags of Whoppers and fries-no charge. It was end of the day, and would be tossed out anyway, my first taste of Southern hospitality, and I still love the south today.
We had been sleeping in the van, and very tired, and very sweaty, we pulled into Birmingham, got lost when the Interstate ended, ate a BBQ buffet, then headed north on I-81. Home was within a thousand miles, and somewhere between wanting to get home and not wanting the trip to end, the mood became somber. The trip home is never filled with as much excitement as it is when starting out. After all the humidity, an afternoon of rain in the Shenandoah Valley cooled things off nicely. The views awesome, but Skyline Drive would have to wait. Amazing how high humidity is so uncomfortable, but rain which is 100% humidity can be so cooling and comfortable. But we were within a day’s ride of home, and distances that at one time had seemed impossible, now were no big deal. 500-600 mile days were no big deal, even today. The van had had no problems, other than Brennan falling off the roof when asleep in San Felipe and the right mirror breaking his fall. A miracle had occurred that I never knew of, God had healed my engine. So with thoughts of my new found God, I dropped John off at his house, and headed the last half hour to home. With some unexpected surprises...
My parents never go anywhere, maybe a morning of golf for my dad, or a trip to the A&P for my mother, but when I arrived home that afternoon, the only ones to greet me were their cats. I was living there, having moved back so I could afford the trip, and the empty house gave me time to reflect. How was I to explain this trip of a lifetime and the fact I was now Born Again? The trip descriptions would later come, but how do you describe an infinite God in finite terms? And when I tried, they thought it was just another California fad. But my life was to change drastically in the next 90 days, as God began to work in my life. There would be a huge welcome home party at John’s, friends that weren’t ready to receive a new and changed Mike, and an old girl friend who was. Work was even different, as I became indifferent to what used to be important. No BH around anymore, and when old friends came by, they were offended by my Bible, and that I was reading it. I still wasn’t sure what was going on inside of me, just that it was wonderful. But I was also very alone, as I knew no other Christians, and still didn’t know to pray. John was 3200 miles away, and we would talk sometimes, he has a WATS line at work. But God knew then and still knows today what we need before we ask, and soon miracles were abounding. I had lived my dream of driving coast to coast, but was still waiting for the chance to do it on my motorcycle. But two parties were yet to happen before that dream would be fulfilled. And everything that I thought was valuable to me was changing.
My first order of business was getting my motor back from Butler and Smith, the BMW importers. Who seemed to have lost it, then found it in a dumpster. To be retrieved later by an employee trying to steal it. But back home, all I had to do was get it down the stairs from my bedroom upstairs, so Road Aid Frank could install it, and it ran! I had my bike back, and didn’t realize how much I had missed riding. It is one thing when you choose not to ride, another when you can’t. But the van had turned into just what I needed, so no hard feelings. My next adventure had me going to the Welcome Home party at John’s parent’s house. F. Scott Fitzgerald was right, the rich are different, and I didn’t know his parents were. As I rolled up to their home, I was to confirm that for myself. I was riding alone, but never lonely. And the party was just beginning...
to be contined,
love with compassion,
Mike
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