Monday, December 9, 2013

new in the neighborhood?













I was five when we moved to Algonquin Drive, and onto the edge of the expanding suburbs.  Hetfield Avenue was the main street then to me, and across it lay a whole new world-a world of dump trucks, steam shovels, graders, and bulldozers-what else could a five year old boy ask for?  But on this new street, where it once had been woods, were now houses, and soon to be families with kids, and soon it would turn into its own neighborhood-and I lived on the other side of Hetfield.  Two lanes of blacktop dividing me from this new neighborhood, but somehow uniting us too.  As we watched the moving vans pull up and unload furniture, we would try to get close and check out the big trucks, which smelled of diesel, a strange but fetching smell-they even burst forth with a giant puff of smoke like the bulldozers.  But really we were curious as to who was moving in, and if they had any kids our age.  And most did, and soon we were playing kickball and hide and seek with our new neighbors, getting to know them and making friends.  Testing them out by making them be it first in hide and seek, and soon finding out who was faster and smarter than you.  Who could kick the ball farther and who could defend himself better in a fight.  We never thought of it as anything scientific, we were just making friends, pals, who would last forever, or at least until 7th grade when it would all change, but friends we were....and then they built more houses....Princeton Avenue was the next new neighborhood.  And soon the woods we used to play in, where many of our WWII battles had been fought playing Sgt. Saunders like on Combat! was turned into  a street with houses.  But along the way.....
For we were older now, and bulldozers still fascinated us.  But now we were told to stay away...and we did until the work day ended, then went and sat on the back hoes, and dozers, playing for real, deciding in life what we wanted to be when we grew up-we wanted to drive construction equipment.  And soon we learned about picking up the extra pieces of wood, the nails they dropped, and were building forts on our last vestige of woods, New York Avenue, the last place to play Army, the last place to sled ride, and the last evidence of our past, before suburbia took over.  But when the new Princeton Avenue neighborhood grew, we made more friends, who would marvel at the stories we told, how we used to play on a giant fallen weeping willow where Bill Moore’s home was.  How the path in the woods that was now paved was a source for dodging lions and bears as a kid, and where we had ridden our bikes through the poison ivy.  And they couldn’t believe how where their new home stood, that once was the woods-a haven for young boys and their imaginations...but soon they were to find out, as we invited them sledding on the hills above where New York Avenue was to be, and the last woods would be there play ground too.  The neighborhood was growing...but really our world was shrinking...we were having to much fun to think of it any other way.
And soon the woods where Ricky Ray’s multi-story tree fort, the creek where we played camping out by, the sled runs, and the places we buried our girly pictures would be paved over...and another neighborhood invading, with another group of kids to welcome to our world, who this time didn’t care about our sacred grounds they lived on, and were just a few years too young to play with.  Our last vestige of childhood was gone, and the new kids didn’t care, in fact they wanted nothing to do with us, they were snobs towards us...fortunately Junior High was closing in on us, and soon the old neighborhood would be a  long ago playground, but for now the times they were a changin’, and for us that meant the neighborhood.
But what we didn’t know at the time, was we were changing too, only doing it as a group of friends.  Hide and seek was played less, no more kickball, and suddenly we were sledding at Echo Lake, riding our bikes to Westfield, and girls were a new word, a welcome word in our vocabulary.  Our neighborhood was changing, as were the neighbors, and we weren’t sure what to think, even the old tree forts seemed childish, and soon we were too old, or sophisticated at age 12 to be a kid anymore, we had grown up, we had changed.  We were teenagers!
It has been said, wisely I might add, that each of us is at a different level spiritually.  Which can get us into trouble, or keep us out.  I tend to gravitate to stronger Christians, learning from their example, and trying to be more mature in Christ.  But many times I fail, and wonder, if that was the only time someone saw me, and had been told I was a Christian, would I measure up?  Which scares me, for so often I am not...only when others aren’t looking of course.  But how do you handle it when busted?  Do you rebel, taking your ball and going home?  Do you make excuses, making your situation even worse?  Or do you admit it, repent, and go on?  Hint-#3 is the best choice.  Forgiveness is wonderful friend, and it seems as young kids we were more forgiving.  You might have a fight, but ten minutes later be chosen to play kickball, or to go sledding.  We forgave easier, we just forgot, and today many of us need to remember the lesson.  We need to remember that Jesus forgives us-all our sins, and those to come.  We are clean and white as the snow we used to sled on, and perfect in His eyes.  How different in our world, where we say “we forgive, but I won’t forget.”  Aren’t you glad God has a much better plan?  And so reading about the TBN founder Paul Crouch and his death, many critics came out and bad mouthed him.  True he wasn’t perfect, and not one of my favorite people, and TBN had become a kingdom of its own, so much criticism is true and warranted.  But not found in heaven, for Paul like others before him, and those to come are found forgiven by God when we ask Jesus into our hearts.  We will still sin, but thankfully no man will be my judge, and only God can grant me a pardon through Jesus.  Paul’s neighborhood changed when he got saved, as ours did, and now has changed forever, where no sins are remembered, or are past things on earth.  It is all new, and unimaginable-anything you think heaven is, it will only be better.  And I my case, maybe more woods, bikes to ride, sleds to ride, and stories to tell around a fire with other kids in the neighborhood.  But this will be a new neighborhood, fashioned by God, and all eyes will be on Him, and not us.  If only we could learn that lesson now, if we could see each other as God does, either forgiven or not forgiven.  Another choice we make, and the difference between those in heaven and hell.  Some may judge you today based on your past, or on your present.  Only God will guarantee your future, and see you as His Son has made you, clean and perfect.  And so for all those who enter heaven, in our new neighborhood, we will all have one thing in common-Jesus.  The same Jesus who saved us on earth, and we claim our Lord.  The same one who tells us “on earth as it in heaven,”  reminding us of forgiven sins.
What sins do you wish forgiven?  What do you want your new neighbors to not know about you?  Practice now by forgiving, and forgetting,  Be that heaven on earth, and set an example, a Godly one.  New neighborhoods are being created daily, and old things are passing away.  Welcome to the family of God, where all things are made new, all sin is forgiven, and we can have heaven on earth.  Where the only thing we will have I common is we have no sin, it is forgiven, and it will be all about Jesus.  One large heavenly neighborhood, with Jesus as the welcome wagon.  And even the worst of sinners can be forgiven, if they only ask.  Hetfield Avenue was the street to cross into many a new neighborhood, one day crossing over into heaven brings new joys-unspeakable joys, and forever joys.  Practice for it here while on earth, the old neighborhoods will soon be gone.  You can never go home again, but once you get to heaven, you will be home.  Hope to see you there...what was once old will be made new again.  Friends that will last forever.  You are never too old for heaven.
love with compassion,
Mike
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