Monday, June 23, 2014

no glory in the story of Lori and Cory













Late night for me means after 9pm, and after surfing through Direct TV for the third time and finding nothing on I wanted to watch, we settled on House Hunters, I heard them mention Hollywood, so I got curious.  It seems this couple from Wisconsin wanted a summer home in Hollywood, near the beach in Malibu.  Lorie and Cory...what as story.  I guess on the map it is only a few inches away, not the hour drive in heavy traffic that is reality.  But they had $600,000 to spend-you can buy farms for less back home, and were looking.  The first two places were dumps, I mean people really dumped their trash there when moving on.  Homeless people live better.  The third was in the hills by Malibu, not close enough to the beaches of Hollywood, and looked like a hippie shack from the sixties.  They finally settled on a place listed for $500,000, 800 square foot of 1920’s bad memories.  But it had a great view.  That they finally bought for $636,000-I thought you negotiated down!  Above their original budget, and the bleeding of money began.  Remember Green Acres, this place was worse, and soon the Haney’s were lining up to get all the Wisconsin dollars they could.  And more from loans in California.  Mr. Haney could have retired....by the way didn’t he after the Douglases? 
The house was sold by a broker/architect, and it should have been torn down, but instead was renovated.  And doing this from 2500 miles away is never a good thing.  So of course they continued on their bad decision tour by enlisting a contractor, who did what they asked, but not what could have been done.  And many things had to be redone, or done over, or added, just to function.  Don’t people get their new homes inspected before they buy?  Don’t the inspectors inspect and report?  And when they do , do you listen?  Cory and Lori are learning fast, at the speed of their bank balance.  And finally when deciding to add a second bathroom to this 800 square foot house, think of the size of two two car garages, or four parking places-it is small, so they hired an interior decorator.  “Gee Mr. Douglas, you sure have nice place here...” as the funds dispersal goes into overdrive.  And her opening line was “you should have called me sooner,” as she and the contractor debate-contractors always choose the easy way, just not what you wanted or thought you were getting.  And the “let me help you spend your money” syndrome was full on.
Now according to the show, Lori and Cory traveled to Hollywood at least six times by plane-not cheap.  By today’s estimates at lest $656 per person, plus rental of the convertible, it is LA, and dining out.  What’s in your wallet was emptying fast.  One time bringing her father to see, and the same lies he was told about Hollywood he believed.  His first question from their balcony, “which way is the ocean?  I don’t see it.”  Only 20 miles away, on the other side of the hills.  Who was a wood worker, and built them a custom mantel, which Cory damaged when they tried to install it themselves, trying to save few bucks.  Must make a father proud.  And the $90k renovation ended up costing over $110k, welcome to LA!  And finally one last trip to Hollywood from Madison, driving this time pulling a trailer, bringing furniture and other goods, had to cost at least as much as a flight.  Figure in time away from work, and this wreck of a listing for $500,000 ended up costing over $800,000!  And still no beach in Hollywood!  Or place to park their cars!  But the architect, interior designer, and contractor all lived happily ever after.  While the story of Cory and Lori looked sorry, with no glory.  That’s history!  Do I see a remake of Green Acres?  Let’s call it “Invasion of the Wallet Snatchers,” or “Lost Horizons” based on the song Hotel California, you can check out any time you want, but you can never leave!  Now where is the ocean in Hollywood?  One good earthquake away?
Now you can either be the view or have the view.  When we lived at Vallecito Lake in Colorado we had both.  Here is Cali it is different.  And you pay for what you get, maybe not what you want.  Since the recession n 2008, I have applied to the county for a reevaluation of my property for taxes.  And as my house lost 50% of its value, the taxes went down, just not 50%.  And the last year, they stayed the same.  The reason was “my house showed well from the street.”  So I am paying more for my neighbors to have a better house to look at?  Maybe they should help in the cost.....maybe I was just getting a compliment and the tax was a way of saying thanks.  I have yet to hear “you’re welcome.” 
Lori and Cory built a home, without a full considering of the cost.  What they wanted and what they got, and what they paid were two different things.  First a house by the beach in Hollywood, didn’t the realtor advise them?  Or were they so set on Hollywood?  They set a budget, but exceed it by almost 60%, is that wise?  For a part time summer home?  LA gets hot in the summer, why not in the winter?  Even the Mamas and the Papas told us “I’d be safe in warm if I was in LA..” were they just California Dreamin’?  I am reminded of a scripture or two, given to me early in my Christian walk.  Proverbs 16:3, “commit your works to the Lord, and your plans will be well established.”  Works in other areas too.  Luke 14:8 asks us who would build a hose without first considering the cost?  To see if they have enough to finish it?  And finally another of many scriptures about planning, “don’t say you will go somewhere and do something, for today has enough problems of its own.”  Yet we fail to plan, and and when we do never plan of failing.  Do we trust God enough to say “thy will be done,” or do we rush off because we have a credit line, cash on hand, and a desire, often a lust for a car, house, motorcycle, or whatever?  Do we count the cost?  Or do we just call on God to sweep up after we fail?  Guilty on all....can I hear an amen?
When Jesus went to the cross, He knew the cost.  In the garden, He even begged His Father if there is any other way...but He knew there wasn’t.  He knew He was the way, and so He went to the cross voluntarily.  He knew His Father’s plans for Him, and what they meant for us.  Do we?  Have we ever considered the price Jesus paid?  Or do we think He had an endless credit limit from heaven?  Some of us live like we think we do, but when the bill comes we are short.  Sin has eroded our riches, they have turned to dust.  And the grocery store isn’t interested in your FICO score, only can you pay the bill now!  When we came to Christ did we consider the cost, what it would cost us?  Or are we standing in line, hoping for a rich uncle to bail us out?  When really we have a loving Father who is there, to see we don’t get into a situation to be bailed out of, and is there when we need Him.  If only Lori and Cory had asked God first, but $800,000 later they have their $500,000 home in Hollywood, not by the beach.
To them it was the destination, but the ride should have been a warning.  We can have both in Christ, but we need to follow, not lead from behind.  Trust the Lord, ask Him his plans for you, and go about them.  If they are His plans, yours should be well established.  You won’t need an architect, decorator, or contractor, or a banker, or a therapist either.  You will have a wonderful counselor who knows the future, and gives you the desires of your heart.  For unlike real estate where you didn’t pay too much, you just bought too soon, with Jesus the price is paid, at the right time.  Your place in heaven guaranteed.  Consider the cost today before you act.  Ask God for guidance, then take it.  Just over that hill may lie the ocean of your dreams....just not visible from where you are.  But through God’s eyes we can see everything.  Take the decorator’s advice when starting a project, call God first.  Know the cost.  But of course you knew all this anyway....must make your Father proud.
love with compassion,
Mike
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