Monday, September 14, 2015

how far would you ride to surprise a friend?









My touring philosophy is very simple.  If you cannot put gas in it,I don’t want to ride it, and if I cannot ride there, I am not interested in going.  Planes and trains may take you there, but even a vacation on them is still a long commute.  Jammed in with kids, businessmen, families, and others who cannot wait to get to their destination.  While I ride content in the fact that my ride is a destination, one of many along the way.  And so faced with a new motorcycle, due some vacation time, and Labor Day approaching, I put my philosophy into practice.  I had just bought a new 1984 FJ1100, a left over at a vastly reduced price, and wanted to put miles on it.  The first few days were local, then my 600 mile service, then the mental and physical break in began.  I needed to stretch my legs, cross a few time zones and see  just what this sport tourer would do, so I decided to visit my grandparents in Pennsylvania, a short 2300 miles from my home in northwest New Mexico.  With 10 days to ride and visit, it was 3 days to get there, 3 to visit, 3 to come back, always the hardest part of any ride.  One to rest.  All when the national speed limit was 55mph-on a bike geared for 155!  So with my small duffle bag bungeed on, I set off.  Heat, rain, my first 100 miles in one hour stretch in eastern Colorado, and soon I was there.  I had called my grandmother telling her, but we decided not to tell my grandpa so he wouldn’t worry.  And he just happened to be sitting on his front porch steps when I arrived, he knew it was me even before I turned around to park, jumping up and running to me.  Not bad for a man who had trouble walking.  He was so glad to see me, and excited I had ridden.  He is the man in my family I get my travel bug from, when he was 21 in 1926, he and a friend hitch hiked across country,  before Route 66, before paved roads west of the Mississippi, and when motels were still a generation away.  Sleeping in jails, getting rides standing on running boards, and working for meals from farms and families, I come by it honestly.  So it should be no surprise he was glad to see me, startled but not surprised.  And for 3 days we all had a great time.
This was a secret we never shared with anyone else, not even family within 3 miles or family 60 miles away.  It was a special time for us, a time of talking, catching up, dressing for dinner, dining at the Colonial Hotel, and being spoiled for a quick 3 days.  It was one of a very few of my rides where the destination was more important than the ride, but don’t discount the ride either.  It may have been freeway, but going through Virginia and Pennsylvania, which has the third largest amount of new motorcycle dealers for a reason, made for great riding.  But soon, too soon, it was time to head west, and I almost did it in 2 days, except for weather, lots of rain, one stretch from Oklahoma City to Farmington-over 800 miles, in one day.  But like my destination in Pennsylvania, I had a family in New Mexico I missed too, and 9 days away from them was too much.  The miles seem to go faster when returning home, but these seemed to go on forever.  Some would question my sanity, some my devotion to family.  Some my riding a new bike so far so quickly.  Some not flying, some actually going at all.  But to me it all seemed the right thing to do.  A question answered that I hadn’t asked myself prior to leaving, but knew after returning.  How far would you ride to surprise a friend?  Some answer in days, or miles...mine is simpler, whatever it takes.  Sometimes all it takes is a fast bike and a destination, this time grandparents and a few days. Some do break in miles carefully, I do mine by states.  And my two week old bike arrived home safely with just over 6600 miles on it.  With me on it.  Broke in, not broken.
The New King James Version mentions the word friend(s) 109 times.  In Exodus we find God talking to Moses as a friend, in 2 Chronicles God is asked if he was still a friend of Abraham?  Proverbs tells us a friend loves at all times, yet warns later about wealth making many friends and separating the poor.  And reminds us there is one who sticks with us closer than a friend.  Jesus was known as a friend of the poor, lonely, of prostitutes and alcoholics.  He called Lazarus friend that he may go to see him he told others.  Later the Jews would taunt Pilate about him that if you let him go you are not a friend of Caesar’s.  And Paul writes that Abraham was found righteous and called a friend of God.  And James writes that whoever is a friend of the world, is an enemy of God.  God is love, he sent Jesus in love because he loved us.  His spirit is present today to show us love,and to bring us closer to himself, guiding us to Jesus, who made the way back to our father-God in heaven.  How far would you go to surprise a friend?  Yet many refuse to admit or acknowledge just how far Jesus went for us, to the cross and death.  He took the ultimate trip, to the ultimate destination, and calls us friends.  Could we just labor, suffer, ride one more mile, one more day in his name to show others his love and friendship? 
The gospel is good news, both for the sinner and the saint.  It is comfort in the storm, warmth on a cold ride, and a fulfilling meal when hungry.  All shared with God, who came to us in the form of a man and became our friend.  Jesus calls us friend, is he your friend?  What is you response when he asks “why do you call me Lord but don’t do the things I ask?”  Are you close enough to be friends?  Are you even friendly?
Again Proverbs advises a man who has friends must be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.  Some call him master, Lord, rabbi, or God.  But we know him by his first name, just like we do our friends, we call him Jesus.  The friend that sticks closer than a brother.  Job endured a hardship not mentioned much when his friends turned on him, and he had to discipline and counsel them.  He had love for them, all they saw was his misery and how he must have sinned.  Fortunately we have Jesus as a friend, who sees our misery, and when forgiven no longer sees our sin.  He tells us we are his friends if we follow his commands.  Go in his love, his commandment.  Maybe if we live our lives in Christ like John wrote in 3 John, how he longs to see us face to face soon, and that we should greet our friends by name, and what better name to be greeted by than Jesus.  Who waits for us patiently....
And he understands 3 days on the road, for he arose in 3 days.  His destination heaven, after taking care of his friends.  My grandparents were my close friends,who loved me despite my faults.  They forgave me and loved me as I was.  I will never forget the joy in my Grandpa when he jumped seeing me, and how his love for me overflowed those three days.  A special time well worth the trip.  The rain, the police, the cold.  So I ask, how far would you ride to surprise a friend?  Your answer may surprise you, it doesn’t Jesus.  He loves you anyway.  As a friend.  He no longer calls us servants, for a servant doesn’t know the heart of the master.  But now he calls us friends, for all the things his father has made known to him he makes known to us.  He survived the cross, rising again after three days, he knew where he was going and why.  I rode three days on a trip the same way in love.  And while my return trip was bittersweet, his final return to earth will be joyous.  I had family who loved me and I loved at both ends.  Be part of God’s family and find true love.  Here and now, there and later.  Life is a break in for life in heaven, ride it with your friend Jesus.  6000 miles in two weeks may be a quick break in for some, it helps when you know your destination.  Job’s three friends did little to comfort him, only one can truly comfort.  Let the spirit of the living God comfort you today no matter where or how far you ride.  He knows the way, for Jesus is the way.  I got my travel bug from my Grandpa, and my ticket to heaven from Jesus.  And find out how really far a true friend will go to surprise you. For even while we were yet sinners, he died for us.  How far would your ride to surprise an enemy?  Only in Jesus will you ever know....don’t wait for a new bike to take the trip.
love with compassion,
Mike
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