Monday, January 14, 2019

springtime at the swim club











The tall fence around the swim club, in the woods at the end of Algonquin Drive was a great deterrent to us almost teen age kids.  From a hill above we could see over it, with its shiny and deep pools, diving boards, and lifeguards chairs.  But for most of us that was the only view we would ever get, as only the rich belonged to the swim club, the rest of us didn’t.  But during the winter months when it was empty, we would risk going down by the entrance, a chain link fence with barbed wire on top of it, giving a different, close up look, but very limited.  We got to know when the security guard did his rounds, and it became a game to dodge him, before we got chased, being told “you kids don’t being here,” as if he did based on his pay.  But as it is when hanging around the older guys, or those with older brothers, the tales were told of the big guys in high school would climb the fence, and take a swim.  These daring guys were our heroes, and even when one would say hi instead of making fun of you, you felt like a big deal.  But one late spring afternoon before the pool was officially open, we were hanging around as usual, when a group pulled up in cars and got out, and climbed over the fence and began to swim.  With one of them asking “you guys want to join us?”  Do we ever, so we watched as they climbed over the barbed wire carefully, dropped down, and stripped to their underwear.  Amazing how pasty white a body turns over a New Jersey winter, and soon we were swimming in the cold water with the big guys.  Until the lookout yelled “COPS!” and they all grabbed their clothes and quickly went out over the fence in the back, where the access was easier, with no explanation of why they didn’t enter that way in the first place.  But we just did make it, freezing cold running in the cold air, and thinking up the lies to tell our parents.  But really thinking up the cooler versions of climbing the fence and swimming with the big guys.  Something we never did again......
Looking back we never saw how the high school guys in their cars got past the cops.  We only ran like they were hot on our trail.  But every time we would go by there and play, it took on a different view.  We had seen the other side of the fence, we had been inside, and found the fence had two purposes.  One to keep those not allowed out, but once in, it had become a prison of sorts for us, as we couldn’t get out.  This haven for the rich and their families to swim had been violated, and on one Memorial Day a few years later, using BH’s parents pass, we went in through the front gate.  Which made me feel as if they were going to pull me aside and question me, “weren’t you with the big kids that day who jumped the fence?”  And no amount of denial would convince them otherwise.  Busted!  Led out in cuffs, and dropped on the outside of the gate, “don’t even try to come back, we know who you are.”  And suddenly all the coolness of breaking in vanished.....But I made it, but somehow the thrill was not the same, nor the pool the same when filled with members.  And I wasn’t one.  If only his parents ever found out.....
Depending on our audience, we tell the stories of Jesus in our life different.  Among other Christians we want to impress, it is “ all glory to God, praise the Lord,” and he gets all the credit.  Mostly.  Too many times we have to brag on our part, as if God had counseled with us first, “and of course God...” and the story continues.  But when in a group on non-believers, when among those who can criticize and make fun of you, the story is different.  The doctor, the mechanic, even you are the hero, and God goes missing.  And then remorse sets in, and if we are smart we repent until the next time.  We also try to hide our sin the same way.  Denying we were even there, but many times missing the chance to share Jesus to someone God had put in our way.  Consider how the church has bagged on Peter for denying Jesus in the garden, after being told he would.  “Not me Jesus,” and off he went.  Weeping bitterly after lying to a teen age girl.  But just suppose this girl wanted to hear about Jesus, she knew he had been with him, and wanted to be saved, to hear the gospel?  Sound like too many of us when approached, a big shot in church, a scared rabbit outside.  Forgetting God has ordered things, he will give the words needed, and never leave you.  As you quickly tailor your testimony and alter him out.  Too many times when I felt threatened, I found strength in letting God’s words flow from me.  And we both were blessed.  Remember, someone shared Jesus with you, and it probably wasn’t in church.  Peter was in the garden, Jesus was close by as were his disciples.  He had plenty of strength if needed, yet he fled.  But what a different Peter only weeks later when addressing the 3000, when the spirit gave him the words.
Years ago at a Hollister Rally, we went by the Boozefighter’s booth wanting get their new book.  Just two guys and Theresa and I.  When JQ, a head taller than me put me in a headlock and asked “oh good, a Christian, I have a question for you.”  And my theological juices were flowing, wow, sharing Jesus with a 1%er.  But his question, “can God make a rock so big he cannot lift it?” surprised me as much as did my answer.  “You don’t ask God stupid things like that,” and he loved the answer.  Even gave me his email to keep in touch.  The words the spirit had given me at that moment were the right ones, not what I had planned.  But a lesson learned, when asked “are you in the word?” can you honestly say the word is in you?  Scripture tells us the spirit is with us who believe, so is the word in you?  Your words may tell us different.   We all need the spirit just like Peter did.
Sin will put a wall between us and God, only Jesus can break it down.  Some try to escape looking for a way out and over, Jesus takes us through.  On the day I enter heaven it will be through the front gate, not over a fence.  And the heavenly gates will protect me, but remain open for others to enter, and those inside will not wish to leave. But as for the lost, the gate they are found behind is locked.  For they will want to escape, but cannot.  Knowing forever they denied the truth that could have set them free. 
To be honest, the water was freezing that day, and we were scared to death of being caught.  But the thought of jumping the fence, of being with the bigger guys was too much.  Don’t take your chances with heaven, be sure you can walk right in the front gate, and be welcomed by Jesus himself.  And avoid telling your parents how you really got wet!
love with compassion,
Mike
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