Wednesday, June 25, 2014

the grand illusion of youth











Having raised two sons, I can remember how you lose them at 15, but get them back at 20.  And how for those six years you are the stupidest person on earth.  But we forget that we once travelled through that twilight zone of knowing it all ourselves, and it doesn’t always end at 20, sometimes 21 or more.  Growing up in New Jersey, it was popular to hear “it’s not the heat, it’s the humidity...” referring to the perpetual full glands of sweat soaking you.  How you couldn’t get dry after a shower in the summer, and the fun of sticking to the precious hide of nauga on car seats.  Fun on any level-NOT!  That all was to change when I swapped New’s, Jersey for Mexico, and I found out that I didn’t know it all, in fact a continuing trend today, the more I learn, the more I find I don’t know.  I was an athlete, and played all sports, and worked out.  Long before gyms and spas were just places for the beautiful people to pick up on each other.  And the apartment I moved into had an indoor basketball court I used.  So I played a lot, but couldn’t break a sweat.  Just looking at the ball used to make me break out in moisture, now I was hardly getting wet.  And I was tiring easy, I just didn’t get it.  Was I old and finished at 21?  And it bothered me until someone explained altitude to me.  I was living at 5500’, and the air was thinner, explained the lack of power on my R90S also, I thought it was getting old.  But then I learned about the lack of humidity, the moisture in the air that permeates Jersey, but doesn’t in desert climates like New Mexico.  How I was used to 80+%, now it was 30% or lower, and would be even lower in the summer.  What a relief to know I was normal, and to find some truth in the fact it wasn’t the heat, it was the humidity.  As for the altitude....it was a brand new type of high for me.
I had nicknamed our friend Tom Yo-Yo, because he was.  I had known another friend back east we called Oy-Oy, Yo-Yo spelled backwards, so the nick name was still unused in our community.  He lived in a retirement community, although at the ripe age of 30 he didn’t qualify.  A good example of money talks, his family was loaded, and this was one of the nicest places to live in Albuquerque.  And it too had a gym, a great indoor pool, and we used it often.  It also had a sauna and hot tub, such are the spoils of the rich.  And I was over the not sweating and being out of breath aspect of my learning curve, so was hitting the weights.  Just some light repititions, but soon I found I was using more weight than ever before.  At first I wondered if there was another new law that when combined with low humidity and high altitude made weights seem lighter, adding some high ignorance for good measure, but none existed I could find.  So one night while the three of us were working out, I commented how I was using more weight, but not getting more results.  Yo-Yo with his know it all smile, sadly he did know a lot, and anyone who knows more than me is smarter than me, laughed at first, just to put me at ill ease.  Then he explained that  this was a senior center, and older men, old men in their fifties and sixties used it, and that the weights were mismarked to cushion their bruised egos.  20 pound weights were really 15, 50 pound bars were really 35, and even the 5 pound dumb bells were only 2 1/2 pounds.  And suddenly I felt worse off than before my humidity lesson, I was working harder, using less weights, and getting less results-actually the results were commensurate with the effort, and I was all messed up. Yo-Yo could have his fake weights, and his sauna, I went riding.  And never looked back.  In one move out west I had conquered altitude, humidity, and mislabeled weights for the elderly and I was tired.  Never before had exercise demanded so much and delivered so little.  Only to be reminded almost 40 years later it wasn’t a humidity, altitude ignorance, or even weight related.  Andrew and I stopped to eat in Winslow, no we didn’t stand on the corner, and we weren’t a fine sight to see.  Two young local Mexican kids were talking, and one asked what “La Fitness” was?  He had seen the sign on a building.  The other, far more worldly answered, “it’s LA Fitness, as in Los Angeles stupid.”  Oh the joys of being young and knowing it all.  The grand illusion of youth...fortunately not wasted on the older.  Proving what Ray and I agreed on, “we may be getting older, but we aren’t getting old.”  And so we both ride.
Religion has taught me that many things are not what they appear to be, religion tops on the list.  I don’t like being called a religious person, I don’t like the connotation of some goody two shoes looking geek out of touch with men, and really out of touch with God.  The base word for religion means bound, and today many are bound to religion. They get caught up in doctrinal and denominational laws, some that aren’t even in the Bible.  They get twisted up in appearance, and wish to look good, or religious.  When deep inside the evil lurks, and is just waiting for the chance to show itself.  Such were the Pharisees, who wore special robes, made loud prayers in public, and would ring a bell to acknowledge their offering.  Not a giving, but a requirement of a tithe, proving to all that since I gave more, I am better.  Except in the eyes of God.  Who looks upon the heart.  And many today still give the outward appearance top billing, and are fooled or lulled into sin.  We find priests who are a poor substitute for Jesus intervening, when we can go to Him ourselves anytime.  We put a huge burden on people to attend church, instead of inviting them to be blessed.  Some thinking that their one hour a week fulfills all obligations to God, and they are off the hook for another week.  Some are commanded to give 10%, but you cannot take an offering, it is a free gift, to be given laughingly, as Jesus instructed.  And the Bible to be read instead of carried only on Sundays, then put on the shelf until next week.  Same time, same church.  And so many get lulled to sleep by religion, thinking they are religious, and then along comes Jesus.  Who came to free us from religion, laws, and the things that bind.  To be the only way, a shortcut to God, and available to all.  Even sinners.  Wow, you let them in church?  Maybe Jesus did hang out with a better class of people after all.
Today many pray, read, attend church, and think they have it made with God.  They met all the requirements of the church they attend, but are missing something, really someone.  Where is Jesus in all this?  Have you let Him into your life, and can you call Him Lord?  Or are you living under the grand illusion that good works are all I need?  So many are like the 15-20 year olds, they know it all.  But don’t know Jesus.  Did you know that the youngest person in Christ is still smarter than the most educated who doesn’t?  That good works are just that, good works.  But it takes Jesus to make it to heaven?  No heat or humidity difference, no mislabeled weights.  It takes the truth, and since Jesus is the truth, without Him you don’t have the way.  No truth, no way, no life.  Your life just like a yo-yo, up and down until you get bored and let the string loose, and the yo-yo dangling.  And put it away in search of another toy....that’s religion.  Not Jesus.
And His offer is free, no membership, and offers 24/7 service.  He is even open on Easter and Christmas.  Is your religion?  Find freedom today in the spirit.  Trust Jesus by getting to know Him.  And watch as you find love, joy, and peace that you didn’t know existed. No illusions, just the truth.  How refreshing.
And for those two guys at La Fitness, I pray they find Jesus before they become Senor Citizens.  Like Yo-Yo’s work out room, I can’t weight for that.  Don’t be an religious oy-oy, Jesus already has it all worked out.  Break the bounds of religion today-His name is Jesus, and He is still the only way.  He knows it all, and I know Him, and He knows me. 
love with compassion,
Mike
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