Tuesday, October 4, 2016

thanks for the memories



















Ann was a very attractive woman who used to bring in her husband’s Mercedes Benz.  She had had a double mastectomy, and she and a friend who had the same would come by with her to pick it up.  She was better about her surgery than I would have been, and they would joke about “going topless,”  and I would shake my head and blush.  But one day she came by in her new SL500 her husband bought her, with her friend along as usual.  Top down, she called across the lot “look Mike, we’re going topless,” as every male head within earshot turned.  All I could do is smile, and blush again, and laugh, for I knew the joke.  Thanks Ann for the memory. 
Mrs. Levy would also bring in her husband’s SL 500, and one time told me to call him if it needed anything, and left me a number.  When I called the number to get the OK to replace his brake pads, she answered.  “Can I talk to your husband?”  “Not right now Mike, he’s in surgery.”  “What happened, is he OK?” was my startled reply.  And she began to laugh, “yes Mike, I hope so, I guess you didn’t know he’s a surgeon.”  Again a joke between two people that meant nothing to anyone else. 
Mark Kotsay, outfielder for the Padres, and then the A’s, loved to ride motorcycles.  And while others wanted to talk baseball, we talked motorcycles.  And about how someday we were going to take a ride together.  But one day after being traded, he stopped in with his manager from the A’s, and I showed him a new Triumph I had, and offered him a ride on it.  With a look from his manager that said more than his words.  “Can’t Mike, my contract won’t allow it,” and his manager agreed.  He couldn’t even sit on it.  And you could tell it hurt, but such is the price of fame and fortune.  Next time, don’t bring your boss.
When I met Barney Li all we had in common was his broken Mercedes Benz.  But when we found out we both rode, that all changed.  Barney had sold his car care products company, and was enjoying the wealth it brought, taking cross country rides with celebrities.  Many a time he would call and tell me of a ride he had done, or was going to do, and we agreed someday we would together.  I lost touch with him after leaving MB and going to Land Rover, until one day his wife brought her car in, and immediately called him, “Mike is at Land Rover.”  And a half hour later he was there, with two new bikes in his truck, and we did some catching up.  He was excited as he was trying to revive the Vincent name for a motorcycle he was building, and we promised to keep in touch.  A few months later I read how he died in a single bike crash outside St. Johns, Arizona.  I know the road, I knew Barney.  I still have the Vincent hat he gave me, to remind me of his friendship, but also of a ride we never got to take. 
“A crazy old Chinaman” was how Weston described himself.  Add hornery and you are more accurate.  But we hit it off, and although rich, famous, and a mover and shaker in the collector car world, every year he was a hit at Pebble Beach, we became friends.  On his many trips to Hawaii, his wife, Mama he called her, always brought me macadamia candy, she knew my wife liked them.  And even when he got throat cancer and couldn’t talk, and wouldn’t see visitors, his son told me to call him, he was asking about me.  I had lost my job at Land Rover, and he wanted to sue them for firing me.  And offered to buy a Lexus dealer in San Clemente for me.  I had called him to minister to him, he was concerned for me, we went deeper than I had thought.  He was concerned for me, and when I tell others who knew him that story, they shake their heads, “that wasn’t Weston.”  But it was to me...and I would love to have one more conversation/argument with him.  And some macadamias from Mama.....a friend I miss.
Our lives are all about relationships, and for a Samaritan woman at the well one day her life would change.  Jews were forbidden to have contact with Samaritans, they were half breeds, but this day a Jewish man would change her life.  When Jesus met her at the well, he told her about her numerous husbands, and how she was living with a man now not her husband.  She at first thought him to be a seer, a fortune teller, but something was different about him.  He had crossed over the line, taking the gospel to another who wasn’t Jewish.  And the Jews thought the savior was just for them.  Here we have maybe the first instance of Jesus’ later words of taking the gospel from Jerusalem, to Judea, then Samaria, and to the outer parts.  We often think of the locations, but forget the people there.  And how the gospel was made for all, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.  For the Jew first, then the Gentile, we are told.  And God even in his wisdom, when the Jews rejected Jesus, sent the gospel to the Gentiles, making the Jews jealous, “the savior was for us.”  And recognizing who Jesus was, because of his love for others besides them.  The gospel became personal that day, and leaving the well had taken on water she never knew existed, the holy spirit.  And she would never thirst again, for she had met her savior.  And every time she needed a spiritual drink, she would know where to turn.  And those of us who know Jesus know just where to turn.  But do we?  Has our relationship with him mostly memories, wondering how he is doing?  Where he went?  When it is us who left, and he knows how we are doing.  And is standing by with a Big Gulp of the spirit to refresh us.  And he is found everywhere you look, you may not be looking at things correctly.
You see he is the joy of Ann going topless, top down in her new convertible, he is freedom from the law that kept Mark from riding when his heart so desired it.  He was the great physician in surgery when we call, and has the time to listen.  And update on the surgery.  He is a friend from another level of society, who we can share a commonality with like I did with Barney.  And of dreams of roads yet to ride with him.  And he is a crazy man to those who don’t get to know him personally, who every time you praise and worship him he turns it back to you in love.  He is that personal, and in our daily routines, with those we meet, we can see him, and he is available.  A well that never runs dry...
We are never told the outcome of how the man who was rescued by the good Samaritan turns out.  All we know is that he was cared for by a man who took the time to see his needs, and stepped across religious barriers to meet them.  For some of us he stopped and offered a drink.  To others he took us in and nursed us back to health.  Some were hungry, and he fed us.  Some were lonely and were without a friend, and he became one unconditionally.  He still visits those in hospitals, hasn’t forgotten those in jail, and even hasn’t forgotten you, no matter how busy you are.  And he leaves us in Matthew 25 with a short message to remember him by, “whatever you do to the least of these you are doing to me.”  I’m sure the woman at the well would agree, can you say the same?
love with compassion,
Mike
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