Wednesday, May 13, 2015

love the one you're with








Anyone who creates, from paintings to sculptures, and from songs to stories, tells us what is going on in their life at the time of creation.  Take one Stephen Stills for instance, when with Buffalo Springfield, and auditioning for Atlantic Records, when asked if they had any more songs, he replied “we have this one, For What It’s Worth,” and played the song which has become their signature song, but at the time had no title.  And a low place in his portfolio.  A song about the LA riots on Sunset Strip, and the rest as they say is history.  A few years later with the super group of Crosby, Stills, and Nash he wrote “Suite:Judy Blue Eyes” about the end of his romance with Judy Collins, and you can feel the pain in his lyrics.  We don’t get to see Judy’s perspective though.  And then again a couple of years later, going solo another hit, “Love the One You’re With,” quite obviously over Judy, or maybe still looking for love lost in one night stands.  Maybe Judy was wanting to love someone else, not the one she was with.  And in each song, his heart is displayed for us to see, hear, and relate to.  Passion in all songs, maybe love wasn’t the right word he was looking for in his last hit, but nobody looks for lust and sings about it.
After a 10 year relationship with my FJ1100, I traded it on a new 1996 Triumph Trident.  I can still remember when I got over the old bike, it took less than 2 miles, and I know exactly where on El Camino Real I was when it hit me.  I had fallen in love with the one I was with, and with a warranty as long as my payments, I felt safe and secure.  But with a two year warranty, unlimited miles, the thought struck me that I could always ride a new bike, with a warranty, and endure the payments.  And so the 96 was replaced a 1998 Thunderbird Sport, which was replaced by a 2000 Sprint RS, do we see a pattern here, and then in 2002 I added a Bonneville.  Keeping the Sprint, ending one cycle, no pun intended, and starting another.  But along the way a funny thing was happening, I wasn’t enjoying the bike I was with, I was busy anticipating my next one.  I never grew to love the one I was with, for a new bike was just a few months away.  Each time to me a better bike, I wish the payments were better, and the old bikes must have felt like Stephen sung to Judy, “it’s getting to the point, where I’m no fun anymore...”  I had run a series of “one bike stands,” and as soon as the new wore off, I was looking for love again, and knew all the wrong places, Triumph being the right place.  I was hooked, and still ride Triumphs, and for Triumph today, for what it’s worth. 
It seems God has built a hole in our soul that even motorcycles cannot fill.  A longing for him, to have a relationship and be loved.  Forgiven and accepted.  Not traded every few years, and not a one night stand.  40 years ago I began a one God stand when Jesus Christ came into my life.  No more sad love songs, no more wondering, or wandering about God, suddenly I had a relationship with him, and my life changed.  And although there are, were, and will always be things that challenge my love for him, God’s love is strong enough to overcome any of my worldly affairs.  He has given me a passion to ride, and the ride only gets better when I worship him, and not the creation.  My marriage is better when I place him first, allowing me to love my wife and family even more.  Everything I need, and nothing I don’t, that’s Jesus in my life.  Where before a ride and new bike was satisfying, at least for a few miles and the new wore off, Jesus never grows old.  Never breaks down, has a better warranty, and hasn’t left me on the side of the road.  His love is more than an emotion, although he affects my emotions, and when I give him the preeminence, the blessings flow.  And somehow still flow when I don’t, such is his mercy and grace.  Others compete for my affections, but only Jesus wears the #1 plate in my heart, and I am not willing to give it up.  Nor will he, and some 40 years later, he is still the one.  Music changes, styles change, and relationships change.  Stephen’s songs did.  It is comforting to know Christ never will, and so I don’t have to wonder how he will react to me, just know it will be for my benefit.  I wish my motorcycles say the same thing....which is why I change bikes, but not Gods.  Jesus is the way....don’t let anything get in the way..
With my fourth Triumph I broke a series of a new bike every two years.  But started a new one, accumulating bikes.  Multiple Motorcycle Disorder, MMD, and at one time was up to 9.  Down to 5 now, not including the 15-20 new Triumphs I ride each year, 12 so far this year in 5 months.  God knows my desire for new bikes, and feeds it in a way I never dreamed of, putting miles on new Press Fleet bikes for Triumph.  But there is a reason I own what I do, and when riding them the relationship in rides and miles continues.  With over 300,000 miles on the bikes in my garage, we have spent a lot of time together, interrupted by new pretty faces, a Scrambler this week.  But it is the long term relationship with them that I enjoy more.  I don’t worry over sounds, I know what they are, and with no warranty other than cash only, they are maintained better.  Just like my relationship with God.  It takes time, and when riding I cannot think of a better sanctuary to worship him.  But on or off the bike, Jesus Christ is still Lord of my life.  And to some MMD may encroach, to me I see the bikes in my garage as a gift from a loving God, who gave me a passion for him, and a love for motorcycles.  Worshipping the creator, not his creation.  A proper order, for a proper God, who loves me just the way I am.
So if you follow Stephen’s advice, and love the one you are with, make sure it is the one who can save you from hell.  Who can change your life, comfort you on the side of the road, give you life.  Who never breaks down, and won’t treat you like a one night stand.  Jesus Christ, for what it’s worth, the only one to love, and who I choose to love, the only one to be with.  Love songs don’t need to be sad, true love and the songs they sing are full of joy.  Jesus loves me this I know....for the Bible tells me so.  And so does he daily. 
I just heard a new Rocket X is coming my way next week, I can’t wait.  For now, I’m enjoying the Scrambler.  But all that power....some things never change.  Aren’t you glad Jesus never does?
love with compassion,
Mike
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